Just like former U.S. Supreme Court Justice Potter Stewart’s definition of obscenity, you know it when you see him. He and the guy that he is with are in a full fledged bromance. There is no bright line test to identify this; but when they are seen together it becomes rather obvious that they are more than “best bros.” They share a bond deeper than one between a husband and wife or woman and child. It’s more than creepy, but slightly less than disturbing.
So what types of guys seem to get into bromances? It’s almost a loaded question because you already know the types – the douchey frat guys with popped collars on their polo shirts, New York / New Jersey guidos, guys with matching spray-on or fake tans, and guys who wear Ed Hardy, Tapout, or Affliction t-shirts. But watch out because if they do wear Ed Hardy shirts, they will be matching with similar bedazzled and glittered skulls and a sideways trucker hat.
Similar to the movie “I Love You, Man”, they often call each other nicknames that stem from an inside joke after a long night out ten years ago when they first became “involved.” Be ready to hear such non-sensical names as Bro Montana, Muchacha, or Joben.
When they hang out, he will spend more time getting ready for his bro than when he goes out with his girlfriend. Although when asked what they will be doing he will inevitably answer watching the big game, having some beers, and play some Call of Duty, that is only a half truth. After doing all that, they may have a big night planned. Maybe go to the club, get on the dance floor together, and do the guido fist pump in unison. Possibly go to the bar and act as wingmen for each other. Or perhaps they will have a quiet, intimate rendezvous and hang out giving each other high fives, fist bumps, or chest bumps until the sun comes up.